Opposites attract?

Recently I've had a couple of conversations with a few of my (single) friends about the type of person someone goes for or is attracted to. Do opposites really attract or do you need someone more similar to your own personality? The consensus is that a person needs someone more opposite from themselves to 'balance things out'. I should probably ask some of my coupled friends...

Anyways, this got me to thinking and I really think it depends on the situation and the people, obviously. When I think about what I would want in a significant other, I think I would want someone more like myself. We would have more in common, right? For example, I just can't see myself with someone really conservative and dependent which is the opposite of my independent, liberal self. I suppose we could have some really good 'discussions' but if we both are stubborn and not willing to budge, that could be a problem. I mean I will listen to other viewpoints and opinions, but will want to share my own thoughts and opinions and will ultimately think I'm right every time. It's just how I am.

When I think about the couples I know, I guess I would have to say that the opposite attraction theory holds up. Most of them are more opposite than alike I suppose, yet all have some similar qualities.

Interesting...so maybe I should be looking for someone more opposite than similar. It's a tough call though and really very dependent on the situation.

I'll post an update if and when I find a significant other and analyze the differences and similarities that he brings to the table. ;)